i feel pathetic

all these girly feelings are surfacing.  i mean, ive only been on my own for about 4 months now, but had been insanely detached from my ex for so many months prior.  now im at this point where i really do just want to be important to someone.  i want people to stop hurting me and treating me like a flushable wipe or something.  no im not like on a wild boyfriend goosechase, but .... i would just like to mean something to someone.  i wanna know that im being thought about.  i want to know that what's said to me is only said to me and no one else.  i want someone to be silly and cute on me.  i feel like im asking too much.  maybe one day.  :/